Introduction

This guide has been divided into three parts:

1. A discussion/explanation of some tasks surrounding death
   of a loved one (pages 4-9)
   


2. Forms that can be completed to aid the survivor in completing
   these tasks (pages 10-16)
   


3. Sample letters which may be copied (pages 16-20)

In this guide it is not possible to cover all decisions which must be made, particularly those concerning the funeral or memorial service. Since some of these decisions are influenced by religious affiliation, it may be beneficial to contact the church beforehand to learn of any information available to assist in planning. In addition, most funeral homes have some written information that may be helpful.

Although some death-related costs are discussed in this manual, it is impossible to make an accurate estimate of the expenses. Some prices are mentioned in the section “Funeral Related Expenses.” However, they should not be considered reliable for planning as there are too many variables and changes in prices. These prices are included to lessen the shock some persons experience if they have not had previous experience in making funeral arrangements.

It is important that one or more persons close to you know that you have completed this guide.You may want to discuss it with them to insure their understanding of your wishes. Also tell them where this guide is kept so it will be available when needed. A letter has been provided (Sample Letter to Survivor-Letter A) for you to complete and give to them. Providing the location in writing is preferable to oral directions.

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